Lisha

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  • How old am I:
  • 25
  • Color of my eyes:
  • I’ve got warm green eyes
  • Languages:
  • French
  • My body type:
  • I'm quite thin
  • My favourite drink:
  • Whisky
  • What is my favourite music:
  • Latin
  • In my spare time I love:
  • Looking after pets

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It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man over 30 must be in want of a ificantly younger woman. Just because we acknowledge this fact, though, does not mean we do so without a certain amount of derision and judgment. From the Instagram commenter who felt the need to remind Zach Braff that he is 44 after the actor dropped a cutesy emoji under a post from year-old girlfriend Florence Pugh to the collective eye-roll aimed at Leonardo DiCaprio every time the actor steps out with a new subyear-old girlfriend, the internet loves to hate an eyebrow-raising age gap. The problem with this narrative, as comedian and writer Anya Volz pointed out in a Twitter thread last weekend, is that it tends to paint men at the northern ends of these age gaps as inherently predatory, rendering the younger women on the opposite sides helplessly preyed-upon victims of male exploitation instead of conscious, self-determined agents who are more than capable of pursuing older men as willfully and actively as older men pursue them. This is not to say that such dynamics are never predatory and older men should feel free to relentlessly pursue younger women because all young women are actively seeking such attention.

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I love dating older men. And with only one long-term exception, just about every guy I've dated has been between 10 and 30 years older than me. I'm not alone here -- age gaps just aren't the taboo they once were.

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It's good news for women, who can benefit greatly from the knowledge, connections, and occasional mentorship older men provide. And it's good news for the silver foxes in the room -- so long as you practice proper etiquette when pursuing younger ladies. Here's how to make it work without reinforcing any daddy issues. Act like the mature man you are If there's one thing a woman expects from older men, it's maturity.

Using your age and wisdom to your advantage will set you apart from her something peers. Never assume a younger man's game is the way to go. For example, don't think you have to go out of your way to make your presence known. No matter where you are -- a bar, the beach, the eye of a tornado -- every woman in the room is already fully aware of your presence.

Ladies are observant! So play it smart -- no staring a woman down, obviously nudging your buddies, pointing, or making gross comments ahem, note to all men!

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She'll see all of it. If you want to attract her attention, do normal decent-human stuff like making eye contact and smiling in a non-threatening way.

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If you do want to approach her, play it polite and open. Don't crowd or leer, and don't make obvious references to her age or body.

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Keep your introduction short and sweet. Let her know she caught your eye. Tell her you're interested in getting to know her. Offer to buy her a drink. If she's interested, she'll reciprocate in her own way. Be upfront about your expectations Vague intentions, game-playing, and a lack of communication are just some of the crappy dating behaviors younger ladies have come to expect.

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Offer her a welcome departure from all that crap by being self-assured, and straightforward about your intentions. Be honest with her: would you like a simple date?

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Something more? Are you genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship? Let her know, and see what she says.

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Older men knowing what they want is hot. Address the wizened elephant in the room Don't assume every woman you pursue is A-OK with the age gap. Ask how she feels so you can anticipate possible conflicts down the road.

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She may be new to dating older men, have her own personal reservations, or not even be aware of how old you are. In which case, keep doing what you're doing, it's totally working. There's no need to make a grandiose statement here, but it's totally appropriate to ask how she feels about the age difference.

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Just get the conversation out of the way and move on. Treat her as an equal She may be decades younger than you, but she's still a legal adult ahem. Understand that she's been paying her taxes, calculating her bills, and making decisions long before she met you. Like any good partner, you'll feel the urge to offer your advice or guidance where you see fit -- but respect that there are times she'll be open to it, and other times when she will not.

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Huge power imbalances -- like the kinds that sometimes come with substantial age gaps -- can produce frustration or an eventual sense of defensiveness. If she's constantly feeling like she has to explain or justify her actions, decisions, or personality to you, she'll eventually learn to resent you or see you as a paternal figure -- the opposite of what you want. Bow out gracefully Now, say she loses interest. Here too, act like a mature man by not getting mad, upset, or fussy.

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These things happen, and sometimes it just wasn't meant to be. You'll leave a much better impression by simply leaving things where they are, and thanking her for her company. It's the right thing to do. But who knows? Maybe with some time and consideration, your last interaction can make the perfect springboard for her to jump right back into the swing of things. Remember: we love the maturity that older men bring to the table. It makes us feel more comfortable with airing out our grievances, and talking through whatever reservations we might have.

Michelle Ofiwe is a freelance writer and the worst of the millennials.

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