- Tone of my iris:
- I’ve got enormous blue eyes but I use colored contact lenses
- I can speak:
- English, Italian
Open 9am to 9pm most days or other times by special arrangement. When you take a sensual massage with Colin, you will experience it as a combination of traditional therapeutic massage techniques blended with sensual, intimate strokes to create the ultimate massage experience. Think of it as a seduction of both the body and mind. Light touch merges into firm muscle work that subtly transcends into intimate erotic arousal. Based on a humanistic approach, Colin draws on his 20 years as a professional masseur and his knowledge of sexual psychology and physiology and the natural primal sexual processes to create a tailored experience for each person. As well as being pleasurable, this produces immediate physical and emotional benefits.
Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra were staying at a hotel in Tokyo when they heard a knock on their door. They knew exactly who it was: their two male masseuses who would soon give them "happy ending" massages, or massages that involve sexual stimulation and orgasms. As the hosts of the podcast "Private Parts Unknown," Kocak and Alexandra travel the world exploring sex, dating, and relationship dynamics.
Sometimes the most important parts of a journey are those when you know it’s not the time to move forward, but instead the time to experience where you are right now, without apology.
During their tour of Japan, they delved into the world of erotic massage for women — a field that involves masseuses giving women massages and orgasms using sex toys and their hands. Along the way, they befriended Hiroko Imai, a Japanese journalist who dared the duo to try an erotic massage themselves.
Kocak and Alexandra agreed, and they now say it changed their views on sex work. They paid for sex,'" Alexandra told Insider.
Once Alexandra paid for sex, she said, she realized it wasn't a shameful experience. I didn't think that there was something sad about it.
It really was like just getting a massage. Sex work is legal in Japan, but under strict guidelines.
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The Japanese use the word "fuzoku" to refer to erotic massage parlors, strip clubs, call-in escorts, bathhouses, and brothels, which are all legal because they suggest the client and service provider are acquaintances at the very least. Prostitution, on the other hand, is considered illegal because it involves paid sex with a stranger, according to The Japan Times. For their erotic massages, Kocak and Alexandra used an agency that hires and trains thousands of men in the art.
My guy had a small dog in his profile pic. The woman rates them and based on her rating, they pass and work for the agency, or they fail and they don't.
Instead of picking their own men like a client typically would, they asked the company to send "two of your best and brightest," Alexandra said, adding that when they looked at their profiles following the massage, they had little crown icons next to their names to ify their prowess. Both Kocak and Alexandra are in long-term relationships, so they discussed the prospect of erotic massage with their partners before booking the sessions. Yeah, sure. Once Kocak and Alexandra booked their massages, they were told that the masseuses would meet them at their hotel and that they should shower before their sessions, which the masseuses do as well.
None of the masseuses spoke English, so they used Google Translate on their phones to communicate.
Alexandra said her masseuse had no shortage of sex toys and was "super respectful" and covered her breasts with a sheet before starting the massage. And honestly, he did an incredible job," she said. Kocak said the men also used their tongues and fingers during the erotic massage, which surprised her. I'm sure they would get tired of doing a lot of that all night [with multiple clients], so it's just a few licks to get you warmed up and then they move on to hand and toy stuff," Kocak said.
The erotic massages marked the first time Kocak and Alexandra paid for sex, and both said they'd do it again. Kocak also said Sensual massage experience never thought about exploring open relationships or polyamorous dynamics, but now she's more open to it.
It truly felt like a physical release. And then we were on cloud nine for at least 48 hours after, just walking around high fiving people," Alexandra said. Buying sex that makes you feel like this, and the other person doesn't feel degraded, and they're making money, and it's through an agency, yes. Hell yes. Legalize it.
Before setting up the massage, they called their partners
World globe An icon of the world globe, indicating different international options. Get the Insider App. A leading-edge research firm focused on digital transformation. Julia Naftulin. Courtney Kocak and Sofiya Alexandra, the hosts of the sex and travel podcast " Private Parts Unknown ," traveled to Japan and got erotic massages.
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They hired men trained in "happy ending" massages through an online agency, asked their partners for consent, and then had minute massage sessions featuring sex toys and multiple orgasms. They said their experiences reshaped how they viewed sex work. Visit Insider's home for more stories.
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