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  • 32
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  • I'm from Uruguay
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  • I'm Sagittarius
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On the relationship history side we started with grade school, made our way through high school and college, and in our last post we got all the way through the China years. After Savan, I lost all interest in romantic relationships for a while. Well, except for once with an ex-boyfriend when I visited my hometown from China for Christmas. Pretty soon, after moving to Chicago, I started dating again and did so with a desperate ferocity and determination.

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Fear of abandonment: destructive relationship patterns to avoid series [part 5]

The same conversation happening over and over again, the constant fear, or dealing with being pushed away or being pulled too closely. After someone has been damaged time and time again, especially in the same way they automatically assume that the next will be just like the others. If they deal with abandonment issues or anxiety they assume and greatly fear that their new love will leave. And they are genuinely sorry for being like this.

Things can get intense at the most random times and it might get overwhelming to deal with.

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Listening to what they have to say can hurt and become very disheartening. Reassurance is one of the greatest things you can give them. Just give constant reassurance and do your best to make yourself heard and believed. They are seeking the reassurance they desperately need but are too afraid to ask for. Most importantly, know that you are not the problem!

Abandonment issues and fear of abandonment in relationships explained

They are well aware that they are the one with the issues and they know that it can cause a rift in their relationships. Those who fear loss are the most selfless lovers and will do anything and everything for you. When they love they love with their whole hearts. Be empathetic, try to be understanding, be reassuring, be patient and do your best to make them feel wanted and appreciated.

People that can calm others down and bring a sense of security are much stronger than any dose of medication that can be prescribed. Featured image via Brooke Cagle on Unsplash. My name is Marisa.

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I was just in a relationship with a guy that has abandonment issues. I deeply cared about him and everything was going just fine until the last 3 wks. It all went to shit. He totally sabotaged our relationship and pushed my away. I felt like used toilet paper.

How to love somebody with abandonment issues: 8 key tips

He made mountains out of mole hill. It was like walking on egg shells. He claimed I tried breaking up with him 3 times. That is what he perceived. I was just trying to get space. He wanted me to move in, just after 2 months of dating.

I thought that was way too fast and a red flag.

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I told him I would think about it after 6 months of dating. I think he took that as rejection and it just added to his abandonment issues. Eventually, this added to the demise of our relationship. It was all about him. What I want to tell you is you have to let people in to love you. People come and go out of your life.

7 tips for dating someone with abandonment issues

We all go through it. In order to heal, you need to realize your importance in this world, your attributes, self-worth, purpose, and focus on bringing up your self esteem. Try not to over analyze situations like my ex did. Try to communicate your concerns before it boils over. But, make sure you do the same. You are not disposable!! We had been close friends for 5 months. We hung out, did most of our activities together, etc. He dumped his girlfriend a couple of weeks after we met because the relationship was really toxic, and I saw how abusive she can be towards him.

They had been together for 2 years. She sent him threats and pressured him to get back to her, but he refused. He confessed his love to me later on the fifth month. I thought he was rushing things at first, but I just gave in because I had feelings for him too. He even checked several times to see if I had put it back. I adviced him to find himself some new good friends, but he said that he had accepted them despite their selfish behavior.

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He stopped working out or doing any activity that he used to enjoy. He thinks a lot about this certain topic in an unhealthy manner. He never states clearly what are his feelings towards me, he just changes the topic whenever I confront him. After whining he tries to act tough and show he has friends a couple of hours later. What should I do? Hope this helps! My beautiful fiancee has abandonment problems. Severe is an understaement.

It kills me to see the agonising she goes through and the self-doubt amd anxiety.

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From the bottom of my heart — thank you so much!!!! No one should ever experience it. This article made a lot of sense. I am not dating someone with abandonment issues, I am the one with abandonment issues.

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We have the same arguments over and over. About not wanting to get hurt and feeling not good enough.

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I push and push him because all in all…when I feel that insecurity I just need that reassurance that he Dating with abandonment issues loves me. I am aware of my issues…and opening up about them to my partner will hopefully help. Because we are an extremely happy and great couple. Thank you for sharing your story and for proving that we all are unaware in the moment. Recognizing these are key factors in making relationships work and being able to communicate this is important.

I hope you and your boyfriend continue to grow as a strong couple and that you, yourself, find inner peace and bliss! I have just lost my partner as a result of my abandonment issues and feel completely lost without him. I have only just recognised the cause of how I am and I have started to seek help via therapy — which he originally said he wanted to stand by me through and has since said I need to go it alone and he is not happy and so needs to be on Dating with abandonment issues own.

We have a holiday planned and had talked about having a baby via IVF — but now I feel like I am just too much for him to deal with an he has bailed on me! We got together by having an affair and he since left his wife, it has been a very turbulent 4 years but I have always stood by him and waited for the happy ever after — but I think the circumstance of how we got together hasnt helped my issues and now I want to be better and for him to be by my side whilst I do but he has said categorically that he is done. I just dont know how to be ok…. Hi Vicky, I know you may feel like you are in an endless cycle of wanting to do better and wanting him to love you, I want you to know that it does get better.

I commend you for your strength and bravery to start therapy, as it is very daunting to someone who is trying to overcome such personal struggles. It may not seem like it now, but one way or another you will find yourself again with or without him. And if not, at least you will have gained the tools to move on as a strong and independent woman who can make it on her own and will eventually find someone who will love them better.

You deserve to be loved by someone who will stand by you and support you through anything and will love you endlessly regardless of the highs and lows. What does a person do that has been in a fantastic relationship for a year and suddenly he wants to just be friends while he works on his abandonment issues.

Hi there, I would recommend seeking a councilor of some sort and attending sessions together and separately to help work through that balance. This shows you are willing to help support them and are looking for education for yourself. Been with my partner for about 4 years. Things were great in the beginning but it was all a front. She has some deep routed abandonment issues that have only become worse and worse. I feel very alone in this relationship at times.

At the moment I feel like a carer, just being company and bringing meals. She told me to leave her many times and to be happy with someone else. I can only hope things get better between us. I miss the girl I fell in love with. What you are feeling is totally valid and I can empathize with what you are going through.

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Have you ever thought of seeking a counselor to help guide you in the right direction of a happy, healthy balance? I would strongly recommend trying one out for a bit, they work wonders if all parties are willing, and there are plenty of affordable ones doing virtual meetings at the moment!

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