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Even if you give it your all and bring your a-game for every date, you might still face rejection at the end of the day. Or you might clip your chances before meeting in person by constantly pitying yourself. What you must do here is stop for a moment and learn how to step out of the vortex of hopelessness. Go out, try a new hobby, meet with a friend, watch a new series on Netflix, go on a shopping spreeanything. The goal is to free your mind from the constant worries and doubts.


There was a time in my life when I was in a similar place of confusion and despair, and I know what it feels like.

2. accept that finding love will absolutely take time

No Spam Privacy Policy We will not sell your info. You have so much going for you! At the age of 41, I had no boyfriend. No prospects, even.

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All I had was a yearning to be in love and have a family. Then, one day, I had a personal breakthrough which led to a transformation that changed everything for me. When I was 19 I had a boyfriend who, after seeing my nurturing and caring nature, told me that it would be a tragedy if I never had children. I would have preferred being divorced! Because even being divorced seemed like a more desirable alternative to this chronic alone-ness.

S you might be a hopeless romantic.

They were unavailable to fall in love or stay in love with me because they were workaholics or alcoholics. Or, they were committed to another woman. Or they were secretly gay. Or, they were afraid of committing to anyone because they had commitment issues.

2. do your own thing.

Or, they were in prison. No joke! I worked as an art therapist in a prison for several years and some of the inmates tried to seduce me. Ironic or not, it led me to finally take a long, hard look at myself and realize I had been the author of my year-long, sad love story. Around the time I was 41, I got involved with a man named Daniel, who was a widower after a long and happy marriage.

I should have known I was just his transitional relationship, but of course, I thought he would come to his senses and see how good I was for him.

I hated being alone in life. yet there i was, 41 and never married.

I pretended that his crumbs were good enough for me. She was patient and listened to my story, as she always did. That day, however, her response froze me in my tracks.

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I was a psychotherapist. I thought I had all my past breakups figured out.

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I mean, you think you know yourself and then someone says one little thing and the entire universe opens up, and suddenly you see clearer than ever before, yes? And that if I wanted things to change, I had to make some changes. There I was, no boyfriend, no prospects, but I was determined that by my 42nd birthday, I would be engaged. To say that I was optimistic was an understatement.

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No matter. I started making space in my life for a husband.

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I cleared out closets, threw out old photos of boyfriends, and tore up old love letters. While I was doing all of this, there was a man I met six years prior, whom I wondered about often, named Mark.

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We had some chemistry when we first met. Our timing had been off, though, so it never went anywhere.

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I had seen him only once in the last six years, but for some reason felt shy about approaching him. My head swam as I scrolled through thousands of profiles of single, available men in my city.

The powerful question that shifted my consciousness

I entered my age, religion, and a few other logistical preferences, and my search narrowed to about 80 men, some with photos, some without. I selected an anonymous profile without a phone! I wrote him an .

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To my amazement, it was Mark. Several days later, there I was, sitting across from the kind, bright, gentle man who would become my husband.

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I was no longer afraid of love. These stories led me to making certain choices, falling into familiar patterns, and then calling it fate.

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It was simply my way of staying true to the story. This discovery led me to develop a process that helps anyone who feels stuck in hopelessness clear whatever unconscious or hidden obstacles they have to finding The One. I found this process to be so powerful and so successful with my private practice clients, that I had to put it down on paper and make it available to everyone.

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The cycle of getting a date, going out with someone new, enjoying yourself and then experiencing some version of you or them not calling, over and over can really chew up your ego.


Depending on where you are in your own personal journey to find love, let's just say we all know that it can be pretty difficult to stay positive when things aren't exactly going your way.


The feeling of romantic love is unmatched.