- My age:
- I'm 49 years old
- What is my nationaly:
- Sexual identity:
- Eye tint:
- I’ve got huge gray-green eyes but I use colored contact lenses
- I understand:
- English, Turkish
- What I prefer to drink:
- I prefer to listen:
She is a single mother because she has got children out of marriage — product of sexual immorality. Many widows today are in sexual immorality — it is better to remarry than be in sexual immorality. Today, single mothers and the world are telling us to accept them. In other words they are telling us to accept sexual immorality. The time we say yes to single mothers, we are saying yes to sexual immorality and sexual immorality will be rampant. If you tell us to accept you as a single mother, you are telling us to accept your sin, this means you have not repented.
Around every curve lurks the danger of another explosion of some sort. In a survey taken among single moms, four issues surfaced as imminent dangers in the home. Do any of these ring a bell?
Is your home a nontoxic environment for your child to share their deepest feelings, even if they know it will hurt your feelings? Can they express that the death of their daddy makes them mad at God? Can they tell you that your remarks in front of their friends embarrasses them? This might be a great time for a counselor to help.
Heaven has no single mothers
What do you say when the hard questions come? Do your react out of your emotions?
Do you stop and think before you speak? I remember when my son was four and I was new single mother. He hurt us!
I was shocked. While I had totally forgotten about that conversation, he had remembered. How do you handle these all-encompassing : finances, parenting, emotional support, and spiritual growth? It leaves one frustrated, driven, and tossed by their unstable thoughts. Everyone needs an ability partner to help them see the blind spots.
5 mistakes to avoid as a single mom
Have you thought about finding a trusted, godly friend who would serve in that role? Yet nothing is more long-lasting than being an imitator—the one who models what it looks like to keep Christ first, accept criticism well, and be patient when wronged.
We forget that the kids are watching, listening to our tone of voice, choice of words, actions, priorities, and attitudes. When we call on the Holy Spirit within us, He tempers our moods and fills us with all we need to mother well.
We can be purposeful in our modeling. Where do you turn to take the edge off the pain?
The only answer in filling that empty void is pressing into your relationship with Jesus Christ. He alone is the one who gives purpose and prospers our difficulties toward a higher gain.
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Just step around it. Call on Christ for help and head in the opposite direction. She is the co-founder of the national organization Arise Ministries bringing encouragement to single mothers worldwide through their online education center: EQUIP.
Pam and her husband Rich reside in Edmond, Oklahoma.
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